Just Random

What's up world...

I'm just in a random mood so I decided to share it with the world lol... I've definitely had some ups & downs this year. It has basically been the best & worst year at the same time!! Crazy, right??? Despite any challenges or things that didn't go my way, I have no complaints. I believe that everything has to happen the way it does & that we have the power to change our situations. Why point fingers when we're the ones making the decisions about what does or doesn't happen. We're not being controlled by strings or by a remote control. It's so easy to place blame on everyone or everything else except ourselves.

I personally don't do the blame game... Nor do I try to duck accountability or my responsibilities. You can't call yourself "grown" if you aren't responsible. BE GROWN FOR REAL. Stop playing & acting like you are.

That was my rant...lol

So, in other news... I'm living the single life once again & doing the dating thing hasn't really been a priority. Crazy thing is, I'm actually interested in someone. It's hard being a single man because there are so many choices. SO MANY FINE WOMEN! Sheesh!!!! LOL!!!! Unfortunately, I can't just date to date. It's pointless. You should date with a purpose. I'm at a point in my life where I'm thinking long-term. If I meet someone & marriage isn't something they're thinking about then dating IS NOT AN OPTION. I'd be wasting your time & mines. NOT SMART. I'm looking though... Which is good for me because for awhile I didn't even have the desire to. My belief in the process had wavered a little bit. But I just couldn't allow past situations keep me chained & boxed in. I want to be happy & make someone else happy for a lifetime. I desire to be a husband & a father. And I know I'd be great in both roles!

Well, I'm done with that spill...lol

My next topic is concerning church/religion/spirituality... But I'm going to devote a blog just for that. I got a lot to say!! LOL!!

Anyway, thanks for listening... All comments are welcome & appreciated.

BooG