Hmmm....

What's up world...

This is really just a random blog moment... I've pondering over quite a few things & felt like sharing some of these thoughts.

First, I'm just so appalled at the lengths some women will go to keep up drama... The past is the past. Why is it so important to bring up something old that has no bearing on your present state nor your future??? Seems pointless to me. If something wasn't that important to bring up or address when it was going on, why do you want to create drama??? Does this make you feel better?? Are you just trying to transfer your pain, agony & hurt onto me??? If I've moved on, you should be able to do the same. Unless the situation has a direct effect on what's going to happen, YOU SHOULD LET IT GO.

Misery loves company... Bitter is not cute.

Second, I'm finding out that almost everyone I come in contact with has trust issues. And it's the biggest reason why so much drama exists. The killer part is that most will acknowledge they have it but don't take any steps to heal or get to the root of the problem. Then they still pursuit relationships, putting themselves in a position to possibly fail from the jump!

Misery loves.... I think you get it.

Lastly, I'm actually opening back up to the thought of loving someone again... The last year has been a huge transition to going from loving someone so much you want to spend eternity with them & they are a huge part of your life... To not even communicating to them & having to let go because it was the right thing to do. It hurt like hell but I'm finally at peace with it. It's a daily process to shed all the baggage that came with it & I know I hurt some women along the way... Sometimes we think we're ready for something only to find out we weren't. The sad thing is it effects not only you but others. My intent was not to waste anyone's time or lead them on. I hope I've been forgiven.

Well that's all from me today... It's been awhile since my last blog. I'm hoping to be more consistent moving forward. Thanks for listening.

BooG